I was riding the train to work the other day. It was about 5:30 am and unusually crowed. Since the recession the trains have become emptier and emptier. Anyway, I was looking around for a seat and as I was looking at the faces I noticed something. Everyone looked so tried. Yeah, I know it’s 5:30 am of course they’re tired. But that’s not what I saw. I saw people who looked emotionally tired and stressed. There was one woman that I saw that was crying. She kept her composure but you can tell there was something wrong besides seeing the tears coming down her face. I felt so bad. I wish there was something that can be done. It was a tough moment. Honestly, I feel their pain. I’m not doing well myself at the moment but I’m trying to push through somehow.
You wonder if they are thinking about Thanksgiving or are even going to celebrate it or even if they afford to celebrate it. This year I believe will be tough for everyone. It’s very upsetting when you see homeless people on the trains asking for any food people have left over.
For this holiday and christmas we should think about giving. The gifts should be a great big hug, asking friends and family over for dinner, even having friends or neighbors over who don’t have anyone to spend the holiday with or you know are having a tough time. We need to spread some love and laughter to those around us who are stressed out. It’s doesn’t cost anything and those types of gifts shouldn’t. It shouldn’t be about what material thing we give people but the emotion we share with people. That’s what will be remembered the most and it will never wear away nor can we lose it.
As I write this, I’m trying to not get upset. It will be a hard year for me as well…emotionally and financially. I also have to re-think the gifts I was hoping to get people. I hope they don’t mind a great big hug because that’s all I can afford right now.
Be thankful for your health, how fit you are, the friends and family you have that support you. Remember that although theses are tough times, they can’t last forever and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Everyone needs to talk, find someone to talk to, let them know you want someone to just listen. Sometimes just having someone listen is a big help.
Happy Thanksgiving
I got into a discussion the other day regarding grapes and if they contain any nutritional value. The person who I was speaking with insisted that they didn’t and all they contained was tons of sugar and carbs. This person claimed that there were no vitamins in them and believed so because a nutritionist said so. Not all nutritionist are bad but you have to consider why they give such information. People mainly go to nutritionists to find out how to eat to lose weight, but then they end up losing out on eating a lot of good for your body food because they want to drop a couple of pounds. But that’s a discussion for another time.
Working with a personal trainer is more than a luxury. It’s a learning experience to make your workouts the best they can be while avoiding injury and working towards a healthier lifestyle. In amNY the exercise equipment company Life Fitness gave the four reasons why someone should higher a trainer:
We have a President, including his family, who are as busy as any other family in the world. But they make time to have a healthier life, by working out when they can ( I read that Michelle Obama wakes up at 4 am to work out), having healthy snacks available – the president has a bowl of apples on his desk in the oval office, and making sure their kids are as active as possible (they only get 2 hours of computer and t.v. time on the weekends). They make sure to have time for everything. You can do it too if you schedule your time efficiently. Whether you like working out at night or prefer the morning. Prepare yourself by having your gym bag next to your briefcase.